Wedding Drink Menu

A Toast to Love: The Ultimate Guide to Crafting Your Wedding Drink Menu

Imagine sipping on a perfectly crafted cocktail as you celebrate the start of forever with the love of your life. Or toasting with a glass of bubbly champagne to the beginning of a beautiful journey as husband and wife. The drinks served at your wedding can elevate the tone for the entire celebration. They not only quench your guests' thirst but also add a touch of personal flair and sophistication to your big day.

But with so many options to choose from, it can be overwhelming to curate a wedding drink menu that reflects your unique style and tastes. That's why we're here to guide you through the art of wedding beverages. From classic cocktails to creative mocktails, we'll delve into the various types of drinks that can be a shining feature on your menu to ensure your guests are sipping on something special all night long. So let's raise a toast and cheers to love, laughter, and the most unforgettable wedding celebration!

Pre-ceremony Drinks

Before the official wedding ceremony begins, it's common to offer guests a drink to help them relax and get into the celebratory mood. Pre-ceremony drinks can range from light and refreshing beverages like lemonade or iced tea to something more substantial like a signature cocktail.

Ceremony Drinks

Drinks to serve during the Cocktail Hour: The cocktail hour is a time for guests to mingle, socialize and enjoy light bites before the main event. Here, you can offer a variety of drinks that cater to different tastes, including wine, beer, cocktails and non-alcoholic options. 

  • Consider having a signature cocktail that's unique to your wedding or inspired by the location or season. A DIY drink station with an array of juices, syrups and fruits can also be a fun addition for guests to create their own personalized drink.

  • Non-Alcoholic Options: It's important to have a variety of non-alcoholic drinks available for guests who don't drink or prefer not to have alcohol. Try to offer a selection of refreshing mocktails, sparkling waters, lemonades, and iced teas that are just as delicious and eye-catching as the alcoholic options. 

Pro tip: Have a signature drink for the couple. This is a special touch to show the couple's personality and style. You can choose a cocktail that reflects the bride and groom's favorite drink, a nod to their heritage, or even a nod to their first date or where they first met. Having a signature drink for the couple is a personal and memorable touch that guests will appreciate.

Ceremony drinks play an important role in the wedding day festivities. Not only do they refresh and hydrate the wedding party, guests, and the couple, but they also help to create a festive atmosphere and set the tone for the rest of the celebration.

When it comes to refreshments for the wedding party, consider providing them with light and hydrating drinks like water, iced tea, lemonade, or sparkling water. This will keep them feeling energized and refreshed throughout the ceremony.

During the ceremony itself, it's important to consider the needs of your guests. Provide them with drinks that are easy to drink while seated, like lemon water or fruit-infused water. This will keep them comfortable and hydrated as they witness the couple exchange their vows.

Reception Drinks

When it comes to the wedding reception, drinks play a big role in setting the tone and adding to the celebration. From clinking glasses during toasts to sipping on a specialty drink while socializing with friends and family, the beverages you serve can elevate the festivities even further.

As the sun sets and the party heats up, serve drinks that will keep guests refreshed and energized. Offer a variety of wine options, such as a crisp Chardonnay or a bold Cabernet Sauvignon, to pair with the meal. Champagne is always a popular choice for toasting, so consider including a bubbly option like a classic Veuve Clicquot or a crisp Moët & Chandon.

For those looking for a unique touch, craft a signature drink for the couple that reflects their personalities or love story. Mix up a boozy concoction featuring the bride and groom's favorite spirits, or create a drink that has special meaning, like a tropical punch in honor of their honeymoon destination.

But don't forget about the designated drivers and non-drinkers, as they also deserve a special treat. Offer a delicious mocktail like a refreshing lemonade with a splash of cranberry, or a fruity iced tea that will keep them hydrated and happy.

As the night comes to an end, treat guests to late-night snacks and drinks to keep the celebration going. Offer a selection of after-dinner liqueurs like espresso martinis, or set up a coffee and hot cocoa bar to help guests wind down.

With a range of drinks to choose from, your reception is sure to be a night to remember.

Budget Considerations

When it comes to wedding planning, drinks can quickly add up and blow your budget. But don't fret! There are ways to keep your bar tab in check while still ensuring your guests are satisfied.

  • A great way to save on drinks is to choose a venue that allows you to bring your own alcohol. This eliminates the need to purchase drinks from the venue, which can often have higher mark-ups. 

  • Another way to save on drinks is to have a limited bar option, for example, only offering wine and beer. This will not only save you money, but also help control the consumption of alcohol at the event. 

  • It's also important to consider the number of guests and the length of the event when determining the budget. 

  • Serving signature drinks made from seasonal and local ingredients can help keep costs down while adding a personalized touch to the menu. 

By being mindful of these factors and sticking to a budget, you can ensure that your guests will have a great time while still enjoying delicious and refreshing drinks.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best drinks to serve at a wedding reception?

The best drinks to serve at a wedding reception depend on personal preference, budget, and the theme or style of the event. Some popular options include Champagne or sparkling wine for toasting, signature cocktails, beer, wine, non-alcoholic beverages, and hot drinks like coffee or tea.

How much should I budget for wedding drinks?

On average, it is recommended to budget approximately $20 to $40 per person for an open bar or $15 to $20 per person for a limited bar. However, it's important to consider your specific needs and make adjustments as needed to ensure that you have enough drinks to accommodate your guests while still staying within your budget.

What are some unique ideas for signature drinks?

Here are some unique ideas for signature drinks:

  • A custom cocktail: Choose a favorite drink, or have a bartender create a special drink that incorporates the couple's favorite flavors and ingredients.

  • A play on a classic: Give a nod to the traditional with a twist on a classic cocktail. For example, a cucumber gin martini, a blood orange margarita, or a bourbon lemonade.

  • A seasonal specialty: Use the freshest ingredients of the season to create a drink that captures the essence of the time of year.

  • A themed drink: You can even create a drink that reflects the couple's shared interests or hobbies. For example, a beach-themed drink for a couple that loves the ocean, or a drink inspired by the couple's favorite movie or TV show.

  • A local twist: Highlight local ingredients and flavors with a drink that is unique to the area where the wedding is taking place.

What are some non-alcoholic drink options for the wedding?

Non-alcoholic drink options for weddings can include a variety of beverages such as sparkling water with fresh fruit, a mocktail bar with custom made cocktails made from juices, syrups, and herbs, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, and lemonades, iced teas, flavored sodas, or a hot beverage station with options such as hot chocolate, coffee, and tea. You can also have a mocktail version of the couple's signature drink for those who do not drink alcohol.

What are some late-night snack options to serve with drinks?

Late-night snacks to serve with drinks at a wedding reception can include a variety of sweet and savory options. Some popular options include mini sliders, fries, chicken wings, fruit skewers, and sweet treats like cookies or brownies. Other ideas include cheese and cracker platters, popcorn stations, or even a late-night dessert bar with a variety of sweets and hot drinks like coffee or hot chocolate.

In conclusion, selecting the right drinks for your wedding can greatly enhance the overall experience for you and your guests. From pre-ceremony drinks to reception beverages and late-night snacks, it's important to consider your budget, the number of guests, and the length of the event.

Don't forget to offer non-alcoholic options for those who don't drink or want to take a break from alcohol. With the right mix of drinks, your wedding reception is sure to be a memorable and enjoyable experience for all.

Kate Crowle